The reason to be happy is not be understood as I think it is almost necessary as is food when we are hungry,air when we need to breathe,smile to express joy,tears to express depression.A smile makes a lot of things easy for us to express or flatter,but how to get this smile naturally matters.If we are not smiling from the heart the real expression is missing,thus our heart feels a burden which we realize later when things do not go according to us.The search for happiness consumes our lives.Many of us continually postpone our happiness-indefinitely.It's not that we internally set out to do so,we keep saying ourselves by convincing ourselves.We say someday I will be happy if i get out of school,when i get a job,when i will get a house,when i have my car,.The reality is that its better to get happy now or never.
Nowadays we are not happy because we are very much dependent.We get more happy when we accept all near us as they are.Happiness is not dependent on other objects but we try to find happiness in them.Objects,possessions,gadgets are only designed to give us comfort not happiness.Happiness is a feeling,because physical comfort is different from emotional comfort.One thing everyone is looking for irrespective of what we are doing is happiness,by different means through objects,through people and reason is success,because we think success is happiness.The dependance happiness is not permanent.We believe we get happy by thinking that doing the act in perfect manner we will get happy.Happiness is our internal creation and not dependent on external object.The thinking that these objects make us happy is not the real happiness,suppose we think if we have the best car we will be happy,but the inner soul is not happy as the happiness is experienced by the physical body.Anything physical object gives us only physical happiness.
The reasons why we are not happy.
The reasons why we are not happy.
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| Factors that Bring Us Closer To Failure Given below are ‘some’ factors that bring us closer to failure: • Dejection and Disillusion. • Fear. • Ignorance. • Confusion. • Influences. • Mental weakness. • Insecurity. • Inexperience. • Ego, arrogance. • Mistrust. • Attachment, dependencies. • Excuses, laziness, putting off. • Excess of acceptance with submission. • Fear of being yourself. • Making judgements without an objective vision. • Nervousness. • Not taking on limits. • Low self-esteem. • Blockages. Not going forward. • Intolerance. • Rigidity – inability to adapt to different situations. |
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